My wife is a foreigner too. She's Chinese and I'm European.
I don't know if PI would matter at this point as we've already separated. How much do they charge?
What caused us to separate was recurring arguments. Hardly any intimacy and and a passive aggressive attitude. She suggested it, and I agreed, thinking it was in the best interest of my child to avoid exposing him to conflict. But since I moved out she's restricting access and doesn't reply to msgs. My son is 2.5.
Agree that the PI may not be necessary, if divorce is going to happen anyway.
Foreigners divorce seems to be a little tricky in Singapore. For it to be granted in Singapore, several conditions has to be established first, like one of the parties has to have a strong connection to Singapore among others. Do a search for foreigners divorce in Singapore and you can find many links for that. But I guess both of you should be quite rooted here to have a house and a child here.
Regarding the ex-wife "abducting" the child overseas, if the country she goes to acceded to the Hague Convention, there can be some recourse for you. You can seek help from the Hague Convention to get your child back if he was taken without your consent out of the country.
But if both of you are going to continue staying here, best to work out the access timing with your ex. If that cannot be agreed on, then you will have to go to court and let the court decide and both of you adhere to it. Thats for the divorce process though.
Not sure if separation status is able to dictate such terms, anyone who has gone through separation before can shed some light on how access time works?